What’s up y’all? Before I start, let me just be clear to y’all that this message isn’t meant to hurt anyone in any sort of way. This is just me “squeezing out the juices” as told by Dr.Rai.. (^_^)
Well this is my first and will be the last time I’m voicing out my concern of certain E-lit student’s (regardless of senior or junior) behaviors’ towards each other in or out of the class. So since this will be my last time as well, I’m pleading everyone to think wisely and take my point positively. First of all I will start typing with a smile (as I come in peace) and will end up with a deep breath of relief. On top of that I think I am the first person who I may without any regrets say courageous enough to reveal the unspoken.
What encouraged me to do this is because of whatever that Dr.Rai have said today when she mentioned about people having problem expressing their thoughts or opinion-what so ever. Let me get to my point. I’m pretty sure you that y’all are very familiar with the term “perang dingin” right? Well that’s exactly what’s going on between certain E-Lit students. Due to all of the respect, I’m not mentioning names ‘cause I just want a positive change and a peaceful learning environment between all of us, not only for now but also for the future in our coming semesters.
Before I proceed, I would like to remind this once and for all that I have NO what so ever intention to start a conflict with anyone. Let me just stress out this expression of disappointment that has been eating me from the inside for quite some time. I can’t help myself from rapidly getting myself back to my room and switching on my lappy to “juice out” thoughts/feeling (whatever u wanna call it) since the meeting with Dr.Rai this morning. Perhaps this whole “risky” action of mine may lead myself to either good or bad consequences but that isn’t my concern here. All I want to do is to open up your minds and face the reality positively and wisely.
Besides, I am also doing this on behalf of those who had helplessly shed their tears due to the injustices. In my humble opinion, by having this kinda attitude, I think all of the Dr.Rai’s effort might just go waste without any positive results at the end of the day. I am aware that coming clean is the easiest way of getting yourselves out of trouble but everybody has different ways of concluding matters. Some people just love bad mouthing behinds their friends back whereas some just listen to the hot-sizzling topic and pours more “kerosene into the flame”. Whereas some people just hear and acts cool about it (self-denial).
Lately, I have been hearing a lot of smack talks and I was shocked of how someone so sweet like her/him could be having that sort of mentality when we are all at the same University level. Goodness gracious.. Looks can be truly deceiving huh? What is all the drama about? Bare in our minds that we are all here for a reason and the reason is to be a distinctive graduate. Some people just don’t choose to grow up and prefer sticking to their high school lifestyles. C’mon guys! This isn’t the way things should be right?? Trust me when I say with this attitude of yours, you will go nowhere. Nevertheless, I come to the sense that we are judgmental but if you seriously deepen your thoughts and think critically about it, we have no rights to do so. I mean, who are we to actually ruin someone’s name/reputation/image or friendship just for our own self-interest??
I am pretty “astonished” on how one could look for another person’s flaw without considering about their feelings or at least getting to know their problems first. They just keep Talkin', talkin', talkin' talk, Baby let's just knock it off, They don't know what we been through, They don't know 'bout me and you, So I got somethin' new to see, And you just gon' keep hatin' me, And we just gon' be enemies*one of my Kanye West’s silly influence..OMG..LOL!* Oopsiee.. sowwie! I totally got out of topic right..??
;p Well I actually did that on purpose so that you guys wouldn’t be so pressured about this matter. YEAH? (^_^)
Anyway, To Whom It May Concern, please quit doing it. It is a great pity to Dr.Raihanah who’s trying her best of bringing all of us together as a team but what we do is just take her efforts for granted. I have the upmost respect towards her and I truly admire her enthusiasm. Honestly, she is the first lecturer who touched my heart with her sincere advices regardless of the times when she sounded preeeeeeetty pist and annoyed. *LOL!* :p The genuineness of her full dedication towards her work and her deep concern about us is very much reflected and appreciated.
Thank you Dr.Rai, for all of your time and hard work that you’ve put into us.
& yeah!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! May GOD shower you with HIS blessings!
P.S: Always persevere in life! Start thinking out of the box..No matter what stay positive all right??
& Best of luck for FINALS guys!!
*sighs deeply* (^_^)
2nd October 2009
hi i'm really sorry this has happened
ReplyDeletei honestly didnt know about this
i dont know if i did it and i never realised it
if i have offended anyone in any way i do apologise but honestly i dont recall badmouthing others
i do talk about my friends but i never backstab if i'm not satisfied with someone i say it to their face
i'm glad u have put this issur out here
i salute u for ur bravery on doing so
and i do earnestly hope this matter does come to an end
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You know reading this blog post is like being thrown into the middle of a story, without any exposition -- who did what to whom, when and where??
ReplyDeleteHow can like this one? (A little nativization thrown in for good measure, :))
All the same, for those who have been hurt through the actions of others, hmmm, what can i say, been there, and sometimes, am still there!!
For those who are doing the "hurting", intentionally or otherwise, may you gain a sense of awareness of the pain your actions inflict on others, and may you gain a sense of acceptance of others as you would want others to accept you. God Bless!
How does that Beetles song go again... all you need is ... something or other... love, was it? ;).
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